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This Week’s Links on Ma.gnolia

August 23, 2008 – 10:57 pm

Some stuff I’m reading this week…

The Long Tail: I wish people would stop using economy as just a smart-sounding metaphor

The Long Tail: I wish people would stop using economy as just a smart-sounding metaphor

Chris Anderson doesn’t really understand economics, but tries to put measurements on social economies.

How Much Time Should You Spend Networking?

How Much Time Should You Spend Networking?

And it’s a very dangerous thing in this world to not share information. People are paranoid about giving out information, and you don’t want to be stupid, but you have to think that competitors can also be colleagues. The old business models are changing and you’re putting yourself at a positional disadvantage if you’re just relying on internal information now.

Stand Up to Cancer | Social Media Club

Stand Up to Cancer | Social Media Club

SU2C is a multi-party effort started out of a group of Media Executives who are trying to raise money to fund ‘game changing’ research and “dream team” research teams who can make a huge impact in our fight against cancer.

Social Capital and Civil Society - Francis Fukuyama - Prepared for delivery at the IMF Conference on Second Generation Reforms

Social Capital and Civil Society - Francis Fukuyama - Prepared for delivery at the IMF Conference on Second Generation Reforms

The definition I will use in this paper is: social capital is an instantiated informal norm that promotes cooperation between two or more individuals. The norms that constitute social capital can range from a norm of reciprocity between two friends, all the way up to complex and elaborately articulated doctrines like Christianity or Confucianism. They must be instantiated in an actual human relationship: the norm of reciprocity exists in potentia in my dealings with all people, but is actualized only in my dealings with my friends. By this definition, trust, networks, civil society, and the like which have been associated with social capital are all epiphenominal, arising as a result of social capital but not constituting social capital itself.

At Failcamp, embracing their screwups | Philadelphia Inquirer | 08/13/2008

At Failcamp, embracing their screwups | Philadelphia Inquirer | 08/13/2008

At Failcamp, mistakes were OK. Admitting them was even better. As one participant said by means of introduction, “I fail on a regular basis, and I thought this would be a good spot for me. I mean, I failed five times in that sentence.”

It’s OK because out of failure can come valuable lessons, ones that can lead to future success. That’s the message Failcamp organizers Alex Hillman and Amy Hoy wanted to get across to the 20 people who met in Old City last month to share stories of their setbacks.

Government Data and the Invisible Hand | bart.vanherreweghe.com

Government Data and the Invisible Hand | bart.vanherreweghe.com

David Robinson, Harlan Yu, William Zeller, and Edward W. Felten, Government Data and the Invisible Hand, 11 Yale Journal of Law & Technology 0 (2008). View PDF

BarCamp wiki / BandCamp

BarCamp wiki / BandCamp

What is BandCamp About? Music, Musicians, Artists, Bands, marketing and promoting your band, booking a tour, dos and don’ts, selling your music online/offline, old guard vs new guard, etc.

ArtHitch | Value Your Art

ArtHitch | Value Your Art

ArtHitch - a place for artists, collectors and galleries to get connected allowing them to buy, sell, and track ownership of original artwork.

Orson Welles quotes

Orson Welles quotes

“In Italy for thirty years under the Borgias they had warfare, terror, murder and bloodshed but they produced Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci and the Renaissance. In Switzerland, they had brotherly love; they had five hundred years of democracy and peace and what did that produce? The cuckoo clock.”

Corporations Picking Up Bill for Co-Working | workforce.com

Corporations Picking Up Bill for Co-Working | workforce.com

Co-working spaces have been around for a long time, but traditionally they have been the domain of entrepreneurs and freelancers. However, owners of co-working spaces say they are seeing more corporate teleworkers coming in, and in more than a few instances, they are getting their employers to foot the bill.

The 7 Best Jobs for Facebook Addicts - US News and World Report

The 7 Best Jobs for Facebook Addicts - US News and World Report

More and more employers are scouting for social networking skills and trying to fill positions that require daily Facebook diligence. And it’s not all Silicon Valley—the Securities and Exchange Commission just started Twittering.

This is not a dream, folks. The Facebook future is now. Here are the seven best jobs for a Facebook addict

Ma.gnolia Looks to Open Source for the Future | OStatic

Ma.gnolia Looks to Open Source for the Future | OStatic

But given the Ma.gnolia team’s strong history of supporting open standards (from OpenID and OAuth to microformats), I’m betting we’ll see a very friendly license here. On a technical side, it seems likely that M2 will be a success, and that it will keep its hardcore of web-tech-savvy users.

Ma.Gnolia Going Open Source, More Exciting Than The Guy Made It Seem

Ma.Gnolia Going Open Source, More Exciting Than The Guy Made It Seem

Here at Gnomedex, the guys at Ma.gnolia have announced that they are going open source. This is actually very interesting news. If you look at what Wordpress has done for the world of blogging, you can see the power of what an open source social bookmarking platform can do for the world of social bookmarking

Ma.gnolia Opens Their Source - Rev2.org

Ma.gnolia Opens Their Source - Rev2.org

The social bookmarking service Ma.gnolia has announced at the Gnomedex conference today that they are going to make their code available in open source.  The gnomodex conference is being held in Seattle and brings together the best and brightest in blogging, podcasting, and overall tech enthusiasts.  Larry Halff and Tara Hunt made the announcement today during their early morning speech.

Bookmarking service Magnolia opens up its source to all | Webware : Cool Web apps for everyone - CNET

Bookmarking service Magnolia opens up its source to all | Webware : Cool Web apps for everyone - CNET

To cut through some of the tech talk it’s akin to WordPress.com offering WordPress.org, a downloadable version that can be hosted on the user’s own servers . More importantly, the project should help speed up the development of both the hosted and user-installed iterations of the service by tapping into a community of avid developers

Ma.gnolia Goes Open Source; Wants to be the WordPress of Social Bookmarking

Ma.gnolia Goes Open Source; Wants to be the WordPress of Social Bookmarking

Social bookmarking service Ma.gnolia is going open source, announcing plans to allow anyone to download their code and run their own version of the service under a GPL license. While the project - dubbed M2 - won’t officially launch until next month, the company is launching Ma.gnolia.org today, which includes a project charter, preliminary documentation, and a discu

Ma.gnolia, Going Open Source | Blog World Expo Blog

Ma.gnolia, Going Open Source | Blog World Expo Blog

This morning Ma.gnolia announced that they are doing to take the open source route.  Many of you may be familiar with the larger book marking site Delicious; but Read Write Web has an excellent list of why Ma.gnolia is cool

M2: Ma.gnolia to go Open Source - Download Squad

M2: Ma.gnolia to go Open Source - Download Squad

So, why Open Source, and what does it mean to Ma.gnolia users? Well, you’ll be able to download Ma.gnolia and run your own version of it, and that version will be able to interoperate with Ma.gnolia.com and other web services. Standards like OpenID and OAuth will be supported, allowing for maximum portability of your data — which, in the case of Ma.gnolia, mostly means your bookmarks and tags — between sites. If you’re already thinking of creative uses for an Open Source Ma.gnolia, good! They’re looking to make user feedback a big part of building M2, so keep an eye on their blog if you’ve got input.

Ma.gnolia Chooses the Open-Source Route: Will It Help Win Over Delicious? | Profy | Internet news and commentary

Ma.gnolia Chooses the Open-Source Route: Will It Help Win Over Delicious? | Profy | Internet news and commentary

What’s more, being open-sources for Ma.gnolia means that any webmaster or any company will be able to take the code, customize it and install it as a part of other existing web properties. The interesting approach is that even if you install your version of M.gnolia on your website it will still be able to communicate with the other Ma.gnolia’s and all the links saved will join the bookmarks of the core Ma.gnolia.

StopTheManga.com | Show Yourself!

StopTheManga.com | Show Yourself!

this site was built as a response to the flood of “mangatars” on twitter.com sourced from FaceYourManga.com and feel free to play along — all you need is a twitter account

View all my bookmarks on Ma.gnolia

By miss rogue | Posted in stuff | Comments (1)

An Open Source, decentralized and federated version of Ma.gnolia for social bookmarks

August 22, 2008 – 9:00 am

I’m proud to help my friends at Ma.gnolia with this awesome announcement (we’re at Gnomedex where we’ve just told the audience about this).

Today’s announcement of Ma.gnolia 2, or M2 for short, is a ground-up rewrite of Ma.gnolia, re-creating features I love today, taking a second run at what didn’t worked as well as planned, on a distributed, service-based architecture designed to handle the large volumes of data they’ve seen. And even more significantly, M2 will be an open source project that can be downloaded to remix and run as your own.

Here is some more information about how it will work:

What happens to Ma.gnolia as I know it?
Ma.gnolia.com will still provide free, ad-supported hosted accounts, just as they do now. Existing accounts will be transitioned to M2 when it’s ready, and will include a number of new features that they’ll detail throughout development.

What exactly is meant by Open Source?
As they develop M2, it means they’ll be posting the code for most pieces in the open and having regular discussions on both technical and non-technical subjects to get input from the community and to share our progress.

Once M2 is launched, the open source aspects can be downloaded and run as a self-administered installation that can be independent or federated with other installations, including Ma.gnolia.com.

The open source aspect will find a home at ma.gnolia.org, where we’ve posted preliminary documentation and a few other links to the tools we’re using to manage the project.

When can we get a taste?
On the coding side, the work has already begun, and the first commits will be coming in September. They’re open to constructive feedback from our many technically-minded members, as I’m sure many will be as excited as they are to be building on standards like OAuth and OpenID from scratch.

Why? How? Where?
They’ve posted the M2 product charter. The document has been in progress for over a month, and captures the reasons behind M2, some technical details on how it will be built, and the objectives they’re committing to as a business, an open source project, and members of the community that’s formed around Ma.gnolia.

More information:
http://ma.gnolia.org

Charter:
http://ma.gnolia.org/docs/M2_Charter.pdf

Start Talking at:
http://groups.google.com/group/magnolila-2-discuss

Code Appearing at:
http://github.com/magnolia/magnolia/

Presentation from Gnomedex can be found here:
http://www.slideshare.net/lhalff/magnolia-2-at-gnomedex-presentation/

More: ReadWriteWeb, Mashable, Ma.gnolia Blog, CNet

By miss rogue | Posted in community | Tagged ma.gnolia, oauth, open source, open web, openid | Comments Off

Time for TransitCampBayArea 2: September 13, 2008

August 13, 2008 – 6:49 pm

After a super successful and highly energetic first TransitCampBayArea, we decided to set the date for TCBA2 for September 13, 2008.

What has happened since #1? Well:

  • It was written up in Governing Magazine in their Wiki issue
  • Joe Hughes started a really active Transit-Developers Group that now has over 100 members working on really great apps for riders
  • I’ve met with both representatives at BART and Caltrain to discuss ideas brought up during TCBA and they are wanting to see about moving forward on them at TCBA2
  • A Get Satisfaction TCBA feedback site was put up that has seen some great ideas to carry forward

That was just from our preliminary and very experimental meetings…so I can’t wait to see what the group can do this time! I really hope you’ll join us for this one. If you are a transit representative, we need you there. If you are an elected official, your input is necessary. If you are a technologist, bring your talents. If you are a rider or a person who wants to move towards a less car-dependent world, bring it on! All of your voices are necessary to improving the experience of transit in the Bay Area.

Details:

Saturday, September 13, 2008
10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.
SamTrans/Caltrain offices, 1250 San Carlos Avenue, San Carlos, CA MAP

The schedule will be created between 9:00 a.m. and 10:00 a.m. with the opening session beginning at 10:00 a.m. Muffins and coffee will be served in the morning and a lunch will be served at 1:00 pm.

More information can be found on the wiki and you can REGISTER HERE.

p.s. We are still looking for another sponsor…you can donate at the registration site.

p.p.s. if you aren’t from the Bay Area and are passionate about Transit…you may want to think about throwing one of these in your back yard. ;)

By miss rogue | Posted in events, green | Tagged transitcamp, transitcampbayarea, transitcampbayarea2 | Comments (2)

This Week’s Links on Ma.gnolia

August 9, 2008 – 10:57 pm

Some stuff I’m reading this week…

Welcome! - TinEye

Welcome! - TinEye

TinEye is an image search engine built by Idée currently in private beta. Give it an image and it will tell you where the image appears on the web.

A source is a source, of course, even when it’s free and turning an industry upside down | The Industry Standard

A source is a source, of course, even when it's free and turning an industry upside down | The Industry Standard

When skydiving PR guy Peter Shankman started the “Help a Reporter” group on Facebook last November, he thought his project could connect a few reporters up with sources for their articles. He didn’t expect his idea would garner clients like The New York Times, and challenge a long standing industry giant’s spot on top.

Contemporary craft and original art to buy and sell online - Artflock

Contemporary craft and original art to buy and sell online - Artflock

ArtFlock.com is an online creative community where you can buy and sell original art and craft. It’s an ideal place to discover the latest artistic talent or to share your artwork with new audiences.

So open it hurts | San Francisco online

So open it hurts | San Francisco online

Web 2.0 visionaries Tara Hunt and Chris Messina blogged and twittered about their romance to all of geekdom as if it were one of their utopian open-source projects. Sharing their breakup has been a lot harder.

Open API | Social Signal

Open API | Social Signal

Funny cartoon demonstrating the fear of giving customers control.

So open it hurts | FactoryCity

So open it hurts | FactoryCity

Yes, we were open about our relationship to an extent that many people would probably prefer not to be; that was a choice we made, and that I think made sense at the time. I’m now in a new relationship, and a very different relationship, and I will treat it according to its own unique nature and internal logic. How “open” we will be, I can’t say.

Don’t Cry For Us, Silicon Valley - Money News Story - KFOX El Paso

Don't Cry For Us, Silicon Valley - Money News Story - KFOX El Paso

Says Tara Hunt, an author, blogger, and social-media consultant: “On the surface, it feels like there is a disaster here because many of the companies that are focused on are run by men. But in actuality, if you dig around, you will find more startups than ever run by women.”

Factors that improve online experiences

Factors that improve online experiences

This report outlines key findings from surveys that explored factors that drive online experience as expressed by the three different subject groups – nonprofit organizations and cities, web designers and firms, and the general public.

San Francisco’s Most Walkable Neighborhoods - Walk Score Neighborhood Rankings

San Francisco's Most Walkable Neighborhoods - Walk Score Neighborhood Rankings

Walk Score helps people find walkable places to live. Walk Score calculates the walkability of any address.

Social Media: The Marketing Summit | mThink

Social Media: The Marketing Summit | mThink

Social Media: The Marketing Summit will bring the exciting new world of social media into focus for marketing professionals. Brand managers, merchants and their interactive agencies are in turns amazed, exhilarated and worried by the rise of social media.

McGonigal Cookie Rolling

McGonigal Cookie Rolling

When I asked Jane what she does to feel creative when she is alone, she showed me this. So brilliant.

Doc Searls Weblog · Life in the vast lane

Doc Searls Weblog · Life in the vast lane

I think the main problem for Wikipedia isn’t just scaling. It’s that Wikipedia is worst at something it is also best at: dealing with living subjects. On the one hand I’m astonished at how well Wikipedia stays on top of changing topics such as the world’s tallest structures. (Here’s a second entry, and a third.) On the other I’ve often winced at how lousy Wikipedia can be at presenting accurate biographical information about living people (Dave Winer comes to mind), and at maintaining both accuracy and neutrality on topics such as, well, neutrality. Too much of what gets written are iterative errors and approximations by partisans.

BitchBuzz - For feisty women with their knickers in a twist

BitchBuzz - For feisty women with their knickers in a twist

So, sports fans, what do you think is the heart of the problem?
Is it that having a freer environment around work identities will force women to try to look “hot” to be more valued
Or that women who aspire to leadership roles should keep their sexuality under wraps and private?
Is it that post-‘70s feminists just don’t get it and aren’t listening?
Or that third-wave young women are letting their credibility commit suicide when they call themselves ‘girls’?
Bingo! Major disconnect.

Welcome to Spacekarma

Welcome to Spacekarma

Spacekarma is a space-sharing community. We simply connect those who have extra space with those who need it. It is as easy as booking a hotel room

Homes built from shipping containers - News - Charleston, SC

Homes built from shipping containers - News - Charleston, SC

Shipping containers piled high in the ports is a common sight across the Lowcountry. Now one local businessman is hoping to take this common sight from the shipyards to backyards.
“We design and develop housing utilizing used shipping containers,” said Bruce Cohen, president of Associated Containers Sales & Fabrication.

ScienceDirect - Social Science & Medicine : Gender differences in relationships between social capital and individual smoking and drinking behavior in Taiwan

ScienceDirect - Social Science & Medicine :  Gender differences in relationships between social capital and individual smoking and drinking behavior in Taiwan

Gender differences were found in some aspects of social capital. Stronger effects of social trust on smoking were found for women than for men, whereas stronger effects of neighborhood closeness on drinking were found for women than for men. Social participation was positively associated with drinking in both genders

Online Marketing Statistics: Consumer Shopping, Purchasing & Word of Mouth - Bazaarvoice

Online Marketing Statistics: Consumer Shopping, Purchasing & Word of Mouth - Bazaarvoice

86.9% of respondents said they would trust a friend’s recommendation over a review by a critic, while 83.8% said they would trust user reviews over a critic. (Marketing Sherpa, July 2007)

Emily Chang - Blog: Female Bloggers

Emily Chang - Blog: Female Bloggers

I don’t tend to pay the most attention to lists and rankings.  There’s always deserving people that don’t get included and the general nature of lists is subjective. That said, I appreciate the recognition, the time it took to put together these lists, and I’m honored to be included among many of my own favorite female bloggers.  It’s a good reminder of what blogging is all about - sharing your own voice and ideas, whether it’s to an audience of ten or ten million.

Word of Mouth, Insights, Customer Loyalty Biggest Benefits of Online Communities, Says New Study by Beeline Labs, Deloitte, Society for New Communications Research

Word of Mouth, Insights, Customer Loyalty Biggest Benefits of Online Communities, Says New Study by Beeline Labs, Deloitte, Society for New Communications Research

The greatest value of online communities is increasing word of mouth (35%), increasing brand awareness (28%), bringing new ideas into the organization faster (24%) and increasing customer loyalty (24%), according to a survey of organizations using online communities conducted by Beeline Labs, Deloitte, and the Society for New Communications Research.

Digital Domain - Goodbye, Passwords. You Aren’t a Good Defense. - NYTimes.com

Digital Domain - Goodbye, Passwords. You Aren’t a Good Defense. - NYTimes.com

OpenID offers, at best, a little convenience, and ignores the security vulnerability inherent in the process of typing a password into someone else’s Web site. Nevertheless, every few months another brand-name company announces that it has become the newest OpenID signatory. Representatives of Google, I.B.M., Microsoft and Yahoo are on

OpenID’s guiding board of corporations. Last month, when MySpace announced that it would support the standard, the nonprofit foundation

OpenID.net boasted that the number of “OpenID enabled users” had passed 500 million and that “it’s clear the momentum is only just starting to pick up.”

Support for OpenID is conspicuously limited, however. Each of the big powers supposedly backing OpenID is glad to create an OpenID identity for visitors, which can be used at its site, but it isn’t willing to rely upon the OpenID credentials issued by others. You can’t use Microsoft-issued OpenID at Yahoo, nor Yahoo’s at Microsoft.

View all my bookmarks on Ma.gnolia

By miss rogue | Posted in stuff | Comments (1)

You can’t eat Whuffie (but it’s getting harder to eat without it)

August 5, 2008 – 8:37 pm

How to Monetize Whuffie

The last couple of times I’ve come across the border to apply for my TN1 Visa (NAFTA Visa between Canada and US), the border officers have Googled me. And, to my surprise, have actually told me that the results were good enough to back up the resume I handed them. One official actually said, “You should state on your resume that you are very Google-able!”

This isn’t new, really, and it has certainly been the practice for many savvy recruiters over the years. I worked for a spell at an HR organization in Canada and met many who ended up hiring the candidates with the most impressive online presence…especially when it came to more senior positions at organizations. The more results one has that points to professional accomplishments, the easier it was for them to determine if what was in the resume was accurate. It helped even more if those accomplishments were from websites and blogs other than the candidate.

I believe Google is probably the closest thing we have today to a Whuffie meter. Whuffie, for those who are new here is (and this is my definition):

The sum of the reputation, influence, bridging capital and bonding capital, access to ideas and talent, access to resources, potential access to further resources, saved up favors, accomplishments (resumes, awards, articles, etc.) and the Whuffie of those who you have relationships with.

The term, itself, was coined by Cory Doctorow in his amazing Sci-Fi book, Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom, as the currency of the future. The generalized definition gleaned from this book is:

Whuffie has replaced money, providing a motivation for people to do useful and creative things. A person’s Whuffie is a general measurement of his or her overall reputation, and Whuffie is lost and gained according to a person’s favorable or unfavorable actions. The question is, who determines which actions are favorable or unfavorable? In Down and Out, the answer is public opinion. Rudely pushing past someone on the sidewalk will definitely lose you points from them (and possibly bystanders who saw you), while composing a much-loved symphony will earn you Whuffie from everyone who enjoyed it.

So, you can gain Whuffie through being nice, networked or notable. This is not science fiction. It’s becoming more and more relevant today.

Competition is fierce in the world. There are billions of people working to get ahead. Hundreds compete for jobs. And that is just the individual. When it comes to starting a company that provides a service or a product, you will also be in a position of competition: customer attention. Without differentiating yourself somehow, the battle to make ends meet gets tougher.

This is where you figure out that you CAN eat Whuffie…just indirectly.

Google is powerful because companies and individuals alike know that if people find them online, they will have a better chance of getting the business or the job. And, if they find them in a positive light reflected through the eyes of other customers and contacts, they will have even a better chance than that. Online tools that help customers voice their satisfaction with your product will help boost your Google ratings and instill a sense of confidence in a potential customer making a decision. This is no different than pinging someone’s Whuffie, as Cory describes it in his book. When you get that new customer or you get that better job because of your positive online presence, the money to buy that food follows.

I’ve been thinking of this ever since Michelle Greer posted “No More Whuffie Please” on her blog. I totally see where she is coming from. She has added up a great deal of Whuffie in her social capital bank account, but hasn’t found a place to spend it yet. I certainly hope that Michelle doesn’t give up the amazing work she is doing to make a name for herself in the community, but raising Whuffie without spending it is also a mistake. I generally don’t work for people for free unless I see an opportunity to cash in my Whuffie at a later date. This isn’t mercenary, it is smart and it is definitely part of the reciprocity that ties community together. ‘Cause if valuable community members like Michelle aren’t able to pay the bills, we lose them and nobody wins.

So, Michelle, you are totally right. You can’t eat Whuffie, but it is getting harder to eat without it, so keep up the good work and look for opportunities to raise Whuffie where you can cash it in at a future date. Pick events to work on where potential clients or employers can see the good work you are doing. Let your expertise shine through the content you are producing. People will notice and then you can cash in that Whuffie and pay the bills.

:: Very cool…Dean (@thedudedean) Bairaktaris showed me his post where he pretty much directly cashed in his Whuffie for a new MacBook Air!

By miss rogue | Posted in How to be a Social Capitalist, Uncategorized, government, government2.0, insight, personal, social capital, women who risk | Comments (31)

Living Life Online: pitfalls and perks

July 28, 2008 – 11:54 am

So open it hurts

I spent most of a rare beautiful Saturday afraid to leave my house because I knew that the August edition of San Francisco Magazine was on the stands. I knew that if I left my house, I needed to stop and pick up some copies of it and face the article written by Bernice Yeung about the rise and fall of my relationship with Chris Messina. Bernice spent a great deal of time with both of us over at least an 8 month period, both when we were together and after the breakup. What started out as a piece on Coworking and our involvement in the movement slowly turned into a highly personal piece on living our life online. Knowing this, and having gone through the exercise of fact-checking that revealed the depth of how personal this piece was going to be, I was really afraid to read the article.

So, yes, I live my life very openly…mostly thanks to the advent of Twitter in 2006. Sure, I had been personally open on this blog, but only to the extent that I could weave my personal revelations into my professional practice. But when Twitter and its 140-character limit came along, it gave me license to broadcast the nuances of my everyday life. And it catapulted my openness into an extreme place. I had a really simple-to-access tool at my fingertips (literally) to tell the world how I felt, even when these feelings were ugly. And the most powerful part of this is that the more open I became, the more I connected with people: personally, professionally and otherwise. The benefits were clear to me. I was growing an extended family on Twitter. It was an amazing resource for personal healing.

But there is a downside to this that I only discovered after reading Bernice’s article.

With openness comes vulnerability. Not vulnerability in the sense of: ‘omg, ppl know I’m not home, so they are gonna break into my house’. Vulnerability in the sense of: ‘I’ve ripped my ribcage open for you to see my heart and if you reject it, I think I’ll die.’ And with that level of vulnerability I didn’t notice it happen, but a great deal of defensiveness set in. And it’s really affected many of my relationships.

It plays itself out in really destructive ways such as:

  • Setting unattainably high expectations and then being highly critical when not met.
  • Instead of listening and having a normal discussion, shutting down completely in angry defensiveness.
  • Walking away from several professional opportunities because I didn’t think they ‘appreciated’ me.
  • General paranoia in the form of, “Everyone thinks I’m a space case” kind of garbage.

Now, this isn’t me. Sure, my Mom will tell you that as a teenager I was very angry and defensive, but that was 20 years ago. Now I’m a grown woman who has been acting like a teenager again. If you’ve been on the receiving end of any of this, I apologize. And I don’t blame Twitter at all. It’s merely a tool and what I’ve gleaned through all of this is: openness is good, but defensiveness is not. I need to know my limits and, as I go through life, own the things I put out there, no matter what.

So, recognizing this in the context of reading the article and taking a really hard look at my personal interactions over the past couple of years I have set the goal of truly embracing the chaos and dropping the defensiveness. It won’t mean that I’m no longer afraid to be rejected, but it does mean that I will recognize when I’m having a defensive reaction.

And this, to me, is the only pitfall of living my life online. Amongst the many perks, such as: amazing people I’ve met and experiences that have opened up for me because of this, the pitfall has been that I’ve forgotten how vulnerable it feels to be open and how I need to be trusting as well as open. Good thing is that I can choose how I react to it.

:: update: Chris’ awesome response to the article.

By miss rogue | Posted in embrace the chaos, insight, personal | Comments (25)

This Week’s Links on Ma.gnolia

July 26, 2008 – 10:57 pm

Some stuff I’m reading this week…

ABC News: Forget Phones: Companies Turn to Twitter

ABC News: Forget Phones: Companies Turn to Twitter

Millions of people call customer service every day, yet few are satisfied with the responses they get. What does a frustrated consumer need to do to get prompt help?

Tweet.

That’s right, tweet. Twitter is the newest social networking Internet site that asks its 50,000 users only one question when they log on: “What are you doing? The trick is to respond in 140 characters or less, which keeps posts short and pithy.

Superstruct! Play the game, invent the future. | The Institute For The Future

Superstruct! Play the game, invent the future. | The Institute For The Future

This is a game of survival, and we need you to survive.

Super-threats are massively disrupting global society as we know it. There’s an entire generation of homeless people worldwide, as the number of climate refugees tops 250 million. Entrepreneurial chaos and “the axis of biofuel” wreak havoc in the alternative fuel industry. Carbon quotas plummet as food shortages mount. The existing structures of human civilization—from families and language to corporate society and technological infrastructures—just aren’t enough. We need a new set of superstructures to rise above, to take humans to the next stage.

You can help. Tell us your story. Strategize out loud. Superstruct now.

It’s your legacy to the human race.

E Learning Development | E-Learning Software | ELearning Design | NogginLabs, Inc.

E Learning Development | E-Learning Software | ELearning Design | NogginLabs, Inc.

Providing e learning software, development and design solutions for major corporations, universities, and non-profit organizations.

Das Magazin » Digitale Beduinen

Das Magazin » Digitale Beduinen

Article in Das Magazin about coworking. Photo of me. Not bad, either. I look like trouble. BTW…the article is in Swiss, so I have no idea what it says.

Social Networking Stats: Facebook and LinkedIn Surging in US

Social Networking Stats: Facebook and LinkedIn Surging in US

According to Nielsen Online, Facebook swelled to 29.2M unique visitors in the US, up more than 10 percent from May. Meanwhile, professional social networking site LinkedIn grew more than 20 percent month-over-month to 9.5M uniques. Year-over-year, that represents 77% growth for Facebook, and 187% for LinkedIn, respectively.

LinkedIn Wants You to Learn Social Capital Theory : aha-moments

LinkedIn Wants You to Learn Social Capital Theory : aha-moments

Dr. Nan Lin, professor of Sociology at Duke University, defines social capital as the ability to locate and mobilize resources within your network. It’s not just who you know, it’s who will actually invest effort to help you towards your goals.

washingtonpost.com: Creative Commons Is Rewriting Rules of Copyright

washingtonpost.com: Creative Commons Is Rewriting Rules of Copyright

“No Meaning No” was released under an innovative new licensing scheme called Creative Commons that some say may be better suited to the electronic age than the hands-off mind-set that has made copyright such a bad word among the digerati.

So far, more than 10 million other creations — ranging from the movie “Outfoxed” and songs by the Beastie Boys to the British Broadcasting Corp.’s news footage and the tech support books published under the O’Reilly label — have been distributed using these licenses. The idea has even won the support of Hilary Rosen, formerly of the Recording Industry Association of America, and Jack Valenti, the past head of the Motion Picture Association of America, who became known for their aggressive pursuit of people who share free, unauthorized copies via the Internet.

Interest in Creative Commons licenses comes as artists, authors and traditional media companies begin to warm to the idea of the Internet as friend instead of foe and race to capitalize on technologies such as file-sharing and digital copying.

Scary Cow Productions - the indie film co-op

Scary Cow Productions - the indie film co-op

San Francisco Bay Area community-based movie-making machine!

Green Students - Green Students Fundraising

Green Students - Green Students Fundraising

Green Students’ goal is to educate today’s youth about the environment and to allow schools and other organizations to carry out meaningful fundraisers. The concept is simple: rather than raise money through the sale of chocolate bars, participants are educated about the environment and sell eco-friendly products such as compact fluorescent light bulbs and Klean Kanteens.

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Interactive Strategies 08: Secrets Exposed

July 23, 2008 – 2:00 pm

I'm Speaking At Secret Conference

I’m looking way forward to speaking at this. They have a great lineup and the conference itself has a really awesome theme…kind of a film noire bit about uncovering the secrets. Hope y’all can make it!

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Chaos and Control

July 22, 2008 – 3:30 pm

Alex is embracing the chaos

Recently, my friend Matthew* (aka organ_printer), convinced me that I have to start watching The Wire, an HBO series that follows crime investigations through Baltimore. When I started to watch it, I wasn’t super impressed. Too many of the characters were juvenile and between the street lingo I can never follow (had the same problem with NYPD Blue) and the quick, scenes strung together with a seemingly endless cast of characters, I just couldn’t keep up.

But I gave it a chance and kept watching and by about episode number four, the show started to pull me in. I realized that the endless cast of characters were absolutely necessary for the basic premise of the show: a complexly woven story of all of the ways that chaos determines so much of the world we live in. What one watches as the season unfolds is a series of smaller actions, leading to bigger consequences, consequences you mostly didn’t see coming. But even MORE striking for me was what was missing from the story. The actions and decisions that were being made and not shown to the viewer that led to certain outcomes. I know. I’m lost, too.

So, I started thinking about the show in general terms. We’ve got:

  • A cast of characters where those who appear to be real fuck-ups in the beginning are actually key to solving the case presented and, in my case, ended up being my favorites.
  • An ostensibly hopeless situation that you discover in a key moment in the last episode that the situation is only hopeless for certain individuals. And, to make this less cryptic, the show gives a humanized glimpse into the drug trade as a true business (untaxed of course, so not totally viable) that employs a huge number of people and runs more efficiently than any business I’ve encountered in my travels who can, then, support their families.
  • Some vigilantes, both Jimmy McNulty (lead character) and Omar Little (and to a smaller extent, Kima Greggs, who I hope to see more into in further seasons), who have learnt to mistrust the system set up to serve and protect and who are effective because they go around it in their own ways. And at the same time, the two of them will use that system to further their individual causes when it behooves them. These characters also have an unwavering code of ethics.
  • A story that isn’t about the drug trade and a case to stop it at all, but is about something deeper. Matthew says it’s about democracy in America, but I must not know enough about democracy in America**. I see it more as an illustration of the balance of chaos and control that effects us every day. But I’m guessing that is what he means by democracy in America.

The photo that opens this post is of my friend, Alex Hillman. We took it while in the Brooklyn Superhero Supply Co., a seriously awesome storefront to a more seriously awesome idea. Alex is ‘embracing the chaos’ - one of the many fun products you can buy to help you become a superhero - and playing off of a favorite theme of mine. It’s one of the core principles to raising Whuffie and one of the core lessons to the movements I’ve been involved in, including BarCamp and Coworking. Embracing the chaos isn’t about letting chaos reign, but about realizing that chaos is a reality in the world. If we embrace it and are flexible enough to move with it, life becomes much easier. We are presented with opportunities, we learn more and we become totally resourceful. Of course, with chaos comes chance and this is where control is necessary, too.

The choices we make along the way, as well as the choices others make, help contribute to various outcomes. In The Wire, the characters make certain choices along the way, some positive and some disastrous, but the case moves in a direction because of these choices. The system represented in The Wire (and I hate calling it a system, but I can’t come up with a better term right now) is in place to control those choices. The law that states that one action is right and one is wrong is set up to control the choices of citizens, the process and the chain of command within the police department is set up to control the choices of public servants and personal politics and ego (not officially part of a system, but part of the human race) are in place to control those in control of the law and the process. Whether or not you like control, it is an essential part of the balancer for chaos.

For example, in the case of BarCamp, there is a controlled framework in place to assist BarCampers in making better choices. There are rules that state that you must participate in some fashion and encourage people to make the choice to show up and present. There is a schedule that controls the length of presentations so that those that could potentially go on forever, won’t, and those who may not take the time to explore a topic have to. For the wider movement, there are all sorts of community pressures on what you can and cannot call a BarCamp. Can you pre-schedule? Can you charge for it? Can it be commercial? Can it be invite only? Although these controls aren’t really explicitly stated or enforced, there is enough social pressure in place to effect the choices of BarCampers all over the world.

The law and the team of detectives enforcing it in The Wire are present to set limits…exert control over the choices made by the citizens on the street. But that is only one dimension. There is a balance of control and chaos at work on the street and within the police department. Without chaos, creative solutions to living/policing/etc. wouldn’t happen. Without control, there are those who would make really bad choices that hurt others. The balance, and imbalance, of the two are represented beautifully in The Wire. Nobody ever ‘wins’. That’s not the point. Justice isn’t supposed to prevail. There isn’t justice in a chaotic world, only an ongoing teeter totter of chaos and control that, like Jimmy and Omar, we can learn to straddle in order to move things forward for us and for the people around us. This isn’t a bad thing at all. It is truly the only way we can advance in a diverse world.

I can’t wait to start watching Season Two.


* the site I point to here is only parked…mostly giving him incentive to get something up there.

** From Matthew’s comment below as I misunderstood his thesis: …while it’s not about Democracy in America it is as important as De Toqueville’s book Democracy in America. It paints the downfall of a degrading city as a result of internal and external events and the citizens that play by the game of Capitalism. It is the first show to humanize the drug trade with a cogent argument for why those in the game are left with no other options for success. And that they are just as enterprising as the rest of us working on what we call the “right side of the law.”

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The Dark Knight and Darker Questions

July 18, 2008 – 3:25 am

This is not a review of the movie I just saw. And I promise not to give much away. However, seeing The Dark Knight tonight has got me thinking about some stuff and I’m actually inspired to write more than 140 Characters on Twitter about it.

What I did write on Twitter was: Wow. Being a hero is tough work.

And it is. Certainly, these are comic book heroes and, even in the roughest city I’ve been in, I’ve never seen the likes of Gotham’s underbelly, so the scenarios are way amplified. But if we were to take it down a notch and remove all of the big scenes and explosions and psycho characters that won’t stop at anything to destroy the fabric of society, we may have an interesting metaphor for what it means to be a hero.

So what does it mean?

Well, #1, to be a hero is to be selfless. Whether it is Spiderman or Batman or Wonder Woman or what have you, these characters demonstrate a personal sacrifice for the greater good. My favorite line of all hero movies of all time was from the first Spiderman, where Peter’s Uncle Ben tells him, “With great power there must also come great responsibility.” Lots of people gain power in our world, but a hero exercises that power for the good of others. Even beyond that a hero recognizes that his or her power gained mustn’t be squandered. Idly standing by with gifts is equally irresponsible.

#2, to be a hero is to hold true to a code of ethics
. Now, this may be misconstrued as many villians in our world may purport to hold true to a code of ethics, but within all of the characteristics of a hero, hurting others for personal or interest group gain doesn’t work.

#3, heroism requires action. A hero speaks up where there is injustice. A hero stands up to bullies. A hero will take the bullet when others are afraid. People that talk about being a hero but do nothing when there is much work to be done aren’t heroes. They may want to be heroes, but they need to step up to become one.

Sort of like #1, but sort of separate is the ability to be egolessness. This is the #4 characteristic of a hero. There are many heroes in this world that go unnoticed because the work they do is behind the scenes. They don’t do what they do because they want fame or recognition. Heroes do what they do because they really want to see change. Many of the heroes I know will point out the heroism of others long before they would even receive recognition for what they are doing.

#5, heroes don’t discriminate. The same code of ethics, selflessness, egolessness and action applies to everyone…even to villians. True heroes want everyone to believe. They want everyone to have hope. There are no ’sides’ for heroes. When they are fighting villians, it is only to stop them from committing heinous acts against others. When the fight is over, they will reach out to the villian with the same empathy that they would extend anyone. My favorite heroes are the ones that don’t intentionally kill anyone.

I don’t know if I have what it takes to be a hero. I get scared. I let ego get in my way. I take sides. I totally want to be. I just don’t always know that I have what it takes.

But another thing I love about heroes is that, no matter how strong their character is, they question. They falter. They have times where they don’t want to be heroes. They want to be “normal”. Spiderman has always been one of my favorite characters because, above all else, he is human and terribly torn between the gift he is given and the need for something very real, very human: love. But there is no dating for Spiderman. There is no courting Mary Jane in the manner he wants to. His responsibility is greater than that and for that reason, he must sacrifice that desire.

And, yes, Spiderman, Batman, Wonder Woman and all of the comic book heroes have extraneous circumstances. I believe real-life heroes can have love and live fairly “normal” (whatever that means) lives. But there are sacrifices and it takes dedication. And it can happen every day in all sorts of shapes and sizes of heroism.

Some examples:

  • When someone says something hateful or harmful against another person or group, speak up and say that isn’t cool. Help that person examine their biases. Be kind but firm.
  • If you see someone being treated poorly or in a troubling situation, ask if they would like your assistance. Sometimes that person may be too scared or proud to receive, but offer anyway.
  • If you have privileges that are helping you get ahead in life, consider extending these privileges to others who need to get ahead, too. Teach free a class on using computers in a low-income neighborhood. Donate your old laptop to someone. If you have any other skills that could be transfered to others for their benefit, take the time to teach that.
  • Raise awareness on issues. Use your talents to reach an audience through video, Twitter, your blog, your voice online to let people know what is going on. My favorite hero doing this is Beth Kanter. She rocks. Her dedication is unfaltering.

There are hundreds of things you can do big and small to be a hero and these things you do won’t always be popular (I’m a regular party pooper in social situations when I shut down racist and/or sexist remarks), however, every little bit helps to keep us from getting closer to Gotham. And we don’t need Bruce Wayne’s billions or Peter Parker’s radioactive spider blood, either. We all have gifts to offer.

Of course, I would be remiss not to mention HeroCamp, an event which is to profit nobody attending or organizing it, but a whole schwack of heroes are getting behind the idea of creating programs that create more heroes. That would also be a good step.

So this is not a review, but the movie did impact me. I walked home from the theatre asking myself if I could do it. If I could really be a hero. If I was prepared to be selfless, ethical, egoless, take action and non-discriminatory in my heroism. I hope so. I strive for it. I know I have a long way to go, but I can’t imagine living on the earth for any other reason but to reach that goal.

How about you?

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